I have an opportunity to switch jobs, which may be better for us, or may hurt my family beyond belief; not sure yet. I just know that changes are not something that my kiddo takes lightly. So I am wondering how you get your ASD child prepared for changes, so that they transition better? If I do get this other position, it will involve me working full time instead of part time, and I will be away from home more.
There have already been quite a few changes with my son recently, including him starting a new school, and all the fun things that go with that. He seems to have done okay transitioning to the school and class, which I am thankful for, because it is so much of a better situation and environment for him, I think. I hopeful that he will have quite a bit of progression here once we get into the swing of things with the class.
I am thinking that this job move would be great for us and give us more opportunities, as well as allow us to have some freedoms that we haven't been able to do in quite some time. I know that Johnny craves to have some normalcy in his life as much as we crave for him to have it. But due to some financial constraints lately, we just haven't been able to go and do as many things as we all would like to do with him, but this job shift would allow that for us next year.
So the other question I have, how many moms out there work outside of the home and also maybe have a 2 income household? Anyone please who would like to answer this let me know...
I also wanted to throw my twitter account at everyone, so that maybe those who are reading my blog would like to follow my adventures there as well...
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Sunday, August 28, 2016
Wednesday, August 24, 2016
Words From Another Mother...
I am almost 8 years old but my brain wants to me much younger.
I live in a world I try to understand, but people don't understand mine.
I try to make friends, I know what to say but my brain doesn't let me.
I want to speak, I know what to say but words do not come out.
My brain is always going, even when I want it to slow down.
I break down and get upset because I cant tell you what hurts, how I feel or what I want.
I know many things, I have an amazing mind but its hard for it to come out.
I feel trapped in my own body, begging for an escape.
Some lights and sounds hurt me because my senses are heightened and go crazy.
My brain doesn't let me grasp the concept of danger, which could hurt me one day.
I make weird noises and people stare, and say mean things to my mom and dad. Its not my fault, I do this to keep my body in sync.
People say I have no feelings and cant express emotion, but that's just not true. I get happy, angry and love just like you.
My Autism gives me gifts too,
I force people to slow down, because the little things in life mean the most.
I make people take time to celebrate even the smallest accomplishments.
I make people did down deep and find strength they never thought they had.
My autism makes people re think their judgments before they judge someone else.
One day, I will win this battle. One day I wont be defined by my autism, my autism will be defined by me.
I felt compelled to write this, its been on my mind the last couple days. I'm not sure why. So many of us take even the smallest things for granted, communicating, friends, and every day "normal" life. As us Autism parents quite often hear "it always could be worse" and that is very true, but our fight is really hard too. There are so many barriers that need broken before we can get to them. Take a minute, think about what it would be like not being able to communicate to anyone, not being able to walk outside of your own, even taking a bath or shower on your own. I know i am guilty of taking these small things for granted. I encourage you all to take time out of your day and celebrate the small things. One thing about Autism i have found is that the smallest things in life are usually the best things.
This was a post that I got from one of my son's former classmates mom. Her son has a more severe case of Autism than my son, but a lot of the feelings that she expresses are the ones that I wish I could have before Johnathan began talking and progressing. My heart breaks for those who encounter things like this on a daily basis, because so many people just don't understand.
Autism is definitely not for the weak...
I live in a world I try to understand, but people don't understand mine.
I try to make friends, I know what to say but my brain doesn't let me.
I want to speak, I know what to say but words do not come out.
My brain is always going, even when I want it to slow down.
I break down and get upset because I cant tell you what hurts, how I feel or what I want.
I know many things, I have an amazing mind but its hard for it to come out.
I feel trapped in my own body, begging for an escape.
Some lights and sounds hurt me because my senses are heightened and go crazy.
My brain doesn't let me grasp the concept of danger, which could hurt me one day.
I make weird noises and people stare, and say mean things to my mom and dad. Its not my fault, I do this to keep my body in sync.
People say I have no feelings and cant express emotion, but that's just not true. I get happy, angry and love just like you.
My Autism gives me gifts too,
I force people to slow down, because the little things in life mean the most.
I make people take time to celebrate even the smallest accomplishments.
I make people did down deep and find strength they never thought they had.
My autism makes people re think their judgments before they judge someone else.
One day, I will win this battle. One day I wont be defined by my autism, my autism will be defined by me.
I felt compelled to write this, its been on my mind the last couple days. I'm not sure why. So many of us take even the smallest things for granted, communicating, friends, and every day "normal" life. As us Autism parents quite often hear "it always could be worse" and that is very true, but our fight is really hard too. There are so many barriers that need broken before we can get to them. Take a minute, think about what it would be like not being able to communicate to anyone, not being able to walk outside of your own, even taking a bath or shower on your own. I know i am guilty of taking these small things for granted. I encourage you all to take time out of your day and celebrate the small things. One thing about Autism i have found is that the smallest things in life are usually the best things.
This was a post that I got from one of my son's former classmates mom. Her son has a more severe case of Autism than my son, but a lot of the feelings that she expresses are the ones that I wish I could have before Johnathan began talking and progressing. My heart breaks for those who encounter things like this on a daily basis, because so many people just don't understand.
Autism is definitely not for the weak...
Sunday, August 21, 2016
Blueberries...Who Knew?!?
For those who read my post yesterday, the festival didn't go so hot last night. Well tonight we decided to brave going to the Blueberry Festival in Lexington Ohio. We took Johnny's push chair with us tonight. It went so much better than last night. Between the beautiful weather that we had tonight and the eio Special Tomato Push Chair, the festival was much more enjoyable, and almost pain free.
The big thing yesterday was all of the tugging and pulling that Johnny does when he gets super excited about something. Well with both his dad and myself having RA and me having Fibro, it just doesn't make for an enjoyable time for us. Thank God for this push chair, it has been a blessing for us, and it makes everyone less stressed.
So tonight dinner was Blueberry flavored fair food goodness. Johnny got his usual Fried Mixed Vegetables, which surprisingly he ate every last bit of them, with no fighting or argument. Even though he doesn't like being in his push chair, apparently it does calm him down and allows him to be able to eat and decompress quite well.
Between the blueberries, and the push chair, tonight was the exact opposite of what we dealt with yesterday...Here's to hoping that some day we won't need a push chair to go on family outings.
Happy Sunday!
The big thing yesterday was all of the tugging and pulling that Johnny does when he gets super excited about something. Well with both his dad and myself having RA and me having Fibro, it just doesn't make for an enjoyable time for us. Thank God for this push chair, it has been a blessing for us, and it makes everyone less stressed.
So tonight dinner was Blueberry flavored fair food goodness. Johnny got his usual Fried Mixed Vegetables, which surprisingly he ate every last bit of them, with no fighting or argument. Even though he doesn't like being in his push chair, apparently it does calm him down and allows him to be able to eat and decompress quite well.
Between the blueberries, and the push chair, tonight was the exact opposite of what we dealt with yesterday...Here's to hoping that some day we won't need a push chair to go on family outings.
Happy Sunday!
Saturday, August 20, 2016
Just another day
It is just another day here around our house. I have been working, and trying to stay on top of chores here at home, all while dealing with Johnathan who wants to go here and do that. I'll have to admit as he is gaining more and more independence, it is getting harder and harder to do things with him.
Tonight we took him to a local festival, that we have taken him to since he was a newborn. Only this time, he wanted to walk around, which would have been fine had he listened to us and just simply behaved. He usually is one of the most well behaved little boys that you would ever meet, but not today, he was totally defiant with everything that he was asked or told to do, refused to listen, and almost wandered off when he wouldn't hold either of our hands. It is days like today that get me the most. I am extremely defeated, things that we should be enjoying with our son, we instead are frustrated and just exhausted with all of this. We had so many things planned yet this weekend, and now we are considering not doing them because of the less than desirable behaviors that we had encountered tonight. Not sure what to do, other than pick up the pieces and call it a day, and hope that maybe tomorrow truly is a new day, and we have less issues...
Tonight we took him to a local festival, that we have taken him to since he was a newborn. Only this time, he wanted to walk around, which would have been fine had he listened to us and just simply behaved. He usually is one of the most well behaved little boys that you would ever meet, but not today, he was totally defiant with everything that he was asked or told to do, refused to listen, and almost wandered off when he wouldn't hold either of our hands. It is days like today that get me the most. I am extremely defeated, things that we should be enjoying with our son, we instead are frustrated and just exhausted with all of this. We had so many things planned yet this weekend, and now we are considering not doing them because of the less than desirable behaviors that we had encountered tonight. Not sure what to do, other than pick up the pieces and call it a day, and hope that maybe tomorrow truly is a new day, and we have less issues...
Thursday, August 18, 2016
MIA Yesterday
Sorry to those who are reading my blog for missing my post yesterday. I had a terrible migraine that left me in bed 99% of the day. Today has been some better, but I have noticed that last night's full moon has been causing issues with Johnathan.
Johnathan has been on medication to let him sleep since he turned 2 years old. We thanks to the full moon, he fought his sleep, and ended up not being asleep until after 11, which is 2 hours past his bedtime. Well even though he went to bed way later than he should I have, I thought that he, maybe just maybe would sleep in this morning...Yeah not sure what I was thinking, he never sleeps in. He was up before 7:30 this morning. Either way he has been given his meds again at his normal time tonight, and I am hoping for less of a fight today than I had last night, as he really needs to get adjusted to this new bedtime before school starts next week. His new "old school" that he is going to be attending has an hour earlier start time than what he has been used to, and I want him to be prepared so that we don't have as much of a rush to deal with in the mornings.
With all that being said, does anyone have any hints and tips to share about what has helped your kiddos, and what you have tried that hasn't worked? Maybe if we all work together we can help each other out with issues that we all encounter at some point.
Hope everyone has a great evening :)
Johnathan has been on medication to let him sleep since he turned 2 years old. We thanks to the full moon, he fought his sleep, and ended up not being asleep until after 11, which is 2 hours past his bedtime. Well even though he went to bed way later than he should I have, I thought that he, maybe just maybe would sleep in this morning...Yeah not sure what I was thinking, he never sleeps in. He was up before 7:30 this morning. Either way he has been given his meds again at his normal time tonight, and I am hoping for less of a fight today than I had last night, as he really needs to get adjusted to this new bedtime before school starts next week. His new "old school" that he is going to be attending has an hour earlier start time than what he has been used to, and I want him to be prepared so that we don't have as much of a rush to deal with in the mornings.
With all that being said, does anyone have any hints and tips to share about what has helped your kiddos, and what you have tried that hasn't worked? Maybe if we all work together we can help each other out with issues that we all encounter at some point.
Hope everyone has a great evening :)
Tuesday, August 16, 2016
It has been a rough couple of days around here. Johnny is still eagerly awaiting school, and he is not taking too well to the fact that he has to wait to return to the "old school". Watching him have meltdowns because he can't go to school and he doesn't understand that; is heartbreaking.
In addition to that, I have been working outside of the house, which I love, but have been dealing with an extremely harsh coworker. So with all of us being stressed over one thing or another, it has been quite the experience around here.
Today we are hoping to get things back to "normal" and just have some fun around the house and unwind. To think it is only Tuesday...I swear Tuesday is just Monday's ugly step-child...honest...
In addition to that, I have been working outside of the house, which I love, but have been dealing with an extremely harsh coworker. So with all of us being stressed over one thing or another, it has been quite the experience around here.
Today we are hoping to get things back to "normal" and just have some fun around the house and unwind. To think it is only Tuesday...I swear Tuesday is just Monday's ugly step-child...honest...
Sunday, August 14, 2016
Back To School Time
Back to school time is here again. While a lot of our kiddos aren't looking forward to going back to school, mine on the other hand is ecstatically counting down the days.
This school year is bringing a lot of change our way and Lord knows that change isn't always a welcome thing in a household with an Autistic child. Johnny had been attending the same program since starting school at 3, and finally this past summer we had to finally call it quits with the original program.
As many people know the options are few and far between here in Mid-Ohio when it comes to Autism Programming. After touring the 3 other options that are available, we came to the conclusion to enroll Johnny in the Autism Program at St Peter's Catholic School. While we were extremely apprehensive, and I still am, about this change; Johnny so far seems super excited and eager to go to his "old school", quite literally Old...School. St Peters has been around for almost 150 years, so I guess that qualifies it as an old school. Leave it to our kiddo to be extremely literal in his description of his new school. Either way, he is really excited.
This new venture comes with a lot of "perks" for him, actually having a regular lunch, recess, weekly mass, and being with some of his former teachers. While most of these experiences are going to be completely new, we are still hoping that he is still excited to go back to school after the first week.
Have any of you had to change your child's school, and what are some tips that may help with easing the transition? Trust me, we are going to need as much help as possible with this one I am afraid....
Well wish us luck, because August 24th is coming soon!
This school year is bringing a lot of change our way and Lord knows that change isn't always a welcome thing in a household with an Autistic child. Johnny had been attending the same program since starting school at 3, and finally this past summer we had to finally call it quits with the original program.
As many people know the options are few and far between here in Mid-Ohio when it comes to Autism Programming. After touring the 3 other options that are available, we came to the conclusion to enroll Johnny in the Autism Program at St Peter's Catholic School. While we were extremely apprehensive, and I still am, about this change; Johnny so far seems super excited and eager to go to his "old school", quite literally Old...School. St Peters has been around for almost 150 years, so I guess that qualifies it as an old school. Leave it to our kiddo to be extremely literal in his description of his new school. Either way, he is really excited.
This new venture comes with a lot of "perks" for him, actually having a regular lunch, recess, weekly mass, and being with some of his former teachers. While most of these experiences are going to be completely new, we are still hoping that he is still excited to go back to school after the first week.
Have any of you had to change your child's school, and what are some tips that may help with easing the transition? Trust me, we are going to need as much help as possible with this one I am afraid....
Well wish us luck, because August 24th is coming soon!
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Hello everyone! My name is Megan, I am a 34 year old mother, to one super special little boy. Johnny, my son, was diagnosed with Autism at 2. I have been wanting to create this blog to help others, and share information that I have found useful over the last 6 years since he has been diagnosed.
We live in the Mid-Ohio area, and there isn't very many resources available, but the few that around are quite amazing.
I also wanted to throw some ideas on this blog that are great for just about anyone actually, because we all have someone who is awesome in our lives.
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Hello everyone! My name is Megan, I am a 34 year old mother, to one super special little boy. Johnny, my son, was diagnosed with Autism at 2. I have been wanting to create this blog to help others, and share information that I have found useful over the last 6 years since he has been diagnosed.
We live in the Mid-Ohio area, and there isn't very many resources available, but the few that around are quite amazing.
I also wanted to throw some ideas on this blog that are great for just about anyone actually, because we all have someone who is awesome in our lives.
So sit back, enjoy the view, and lets see what we can do!
Welcome and please feel free to engage with your thoughts and ideas, as I love hearing them!
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